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Know Your Exits to Ease Your System
When you’re being 'trauma informed', whether towards your own or someone else's, it’s important to clearly and regularly identify exits....
Overworking is a Threat Response
We are not born high-achieving, work all-hour, perfectionists. It’s not some core facet of our selfhood. Overworking can be a subtle...
The Fundamental Tension in all Conflict
Attachment = We desire to be more or less connected and feeling safe with another person. Authenticity = We also desire to be more or...
Set Intentions Before You Try and Resolve Conflict
It’s easy to activate someone’s flight/flight/freeze response when your having difficult conversations. Once someone is activated, you’ve...
The Marginal Gains Mentality
Whatever I’m doing on a regular basis is going to have an accumulative effect over time. It’s a commitment to the gradual, the inevitable.
Make your iPhone less addictive
Some of the worlds brightest minds are paid lots of money to find ways of getting us to stay on our phones longer. Our attention is...
One App to Reduce Anxiety
This exercise and app will help to address the biological aspects of heightened states of being. Practices that focus on the body aim to...
Get Unstuck by Recruiting your Little Professor
This article engages with the parts of us that might feel stuck. By understanding and cultivating a state of being called ‘The little...
Cold Water Swimming is Hard. Therapeutic Principles Can Help
How can theories of resistance help us with swimming in cold waters, and life in more general? *This blog was originally published with...
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