I've started writing longer form blog posts over on Substack, where you can listen along with podcast style recordings of me narrating...

I've started writing longer form blog posts over on Substack, where you can listen along with podcast style recordings of me narrating...

I've started publishing blogs on Substack, where you can also listen to me narrating the blog. View the post here:...

Here's the overarching point: Don't play the 'who done it' game. I will use a made up case study to explain my point. Let’s say a...

‘Leeway’ is a sailing term, and it is a useful concept that we can apply to work relationships and conflict resolution. What does it...

I’m tired of reading ‘get out of your comfort zone’ posts online as a route to personal development or achieving goals. 🥱 Here’s my 6...

Have you ever found yourself arguing over who said what, or who did what? Here’s 5 interesting points on our memory in conflict...

This powerful listening strategy can help your communication. 💡👂 It will help you to deescalate hard conversations, or move from...

When you’re being 'trauma informed', whether towards your own or someone else's, it’s important to clearly and regularly identify exits....

Sometimes psychological change is really obvious, like one day the leaves are green, then the next they are brown. Change and growth can...

We are not born high-achieving, work all-hour, perfectionists. It’s not some core facet of our selfhood. Overworking can be a subtle...

Attachment = We desire to be more or less connected and feeling safe with another person. Authenticity = We also desire to be more or...

It’s easy to activate someone’s flight/flight/freeze response when your having difficult conversations. Once someone is activated, you’ve...

Whatever I’m doing on a regular basis is going to have an accumulative effect over time. It’s a commitment to the gradual, the inevitable.

Our experience of trust is not an on or off switch. It’s a continuum. Our ability to trust is effected by our past experiences, and the...

Some of the worlds brightest minds are paid lots of money to find ways of getting us to stay on our phones longer. Our attention is...

The general public’s belief in that many mental health disorders are caused by an imbalance is still widespread. (1) This post...

This exercise and app will help to address the biological aspects of heightened states of being. Practices that focus on the body aim to...

*This blog is taken from my application for accreditation with the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists. The...

This article engages with the parts of us that might feel stuck. By understanding and cultivating a state of being called ‘The little...

This article explores how poly vagal theory might help to describe what happens when mask wearing gets in the way of social interaction, ...